Let me start by saying I am 5"2 (1.5 meters) tall, and I weigh 6 stone 6 pounds (41.5kg) and my BMI is 17.2. I have been the same height for about 2 years and I don't seem to be growing much taller at all. My mum is 35 years old and is smaller than me and weighs only 1 stone more than me, so when I say I'm 'naturally skinny' I MEAN IT! It's in my genes! My mum is very petite and I take after her!
"you don't eat enough" "you're so skinny" "theres no such thing as being naturally skinny" "how much do you weigh" "why do your bones show" "i can see your ribs" "your thigh gap is huge"
Can someone please explain to me why people think these questions are acceptable to ask a person? Would you turn to a 'fat' person and say "you must live off mcdonalds look how fat you are you should really go to the gym and loose some weight its disgusting" NO... YOU WOULDNT!!! Why asking skinny people why they are skinny is socially acceptable I will never know.
According to BMI if your BMI lies between 18.5 and 25 you are 'the right weight' but if it is lower than 18.5 you are 'underweight' and if it is over 25 you are 'overweight'... WHO CARES?! If you're happy in the skin you are in who's to say any different. Obviously if you are critically underweight then that is a different case. I know no one can stop anyone else judging people, but for my height and age I see no problem with the number on the scales. Also there's this magical thing called metabolism which stops me from maintaining any weight.
Like my mum, my metabolism is extremely high! For those who don't know, metabolism is a chemical reaction that occurs in all your living organisms to help maintain life, which basically means the rate at which your body burns calories and breaks down fat. Having a high metabolism means that it is impossible for me to put on weight, and actually maintain it. My body breaks down fat and burns calories at a stupidly fast rate. Now I know for a fact, that many of you will be reading this thinking you would love to have a high metabolism, but let me tell you, it's not all it's made out to be.
Whilst going through school being 'skinnier than my friends', had serious affect on the way I saw myself and the way others saw me. It's pretty steriotypical that the fat kid in class doesn't want to get into a swimming costume or gets changed in the toilets for P.E, or get bullied or called names. However I feel exactly the same way. I used to get changed in the toilets with my friend every lesson because even if they weren't i felt asif people were staring. I feel like in the summer when I'm wearing a crop top or when I'm at the beach in my bikini, people stare at me for how i am, I hate it!
People comment on my photos asking 'how are you so skinny?' 'do you just not eat?' 'do you excersise a lot?' Well let me tell you. I am naturally skinny and there is NOTHING I can do about it. People need to be seriously careful when they talk about weight around others, they could have had a member of their family or maybe even themselves suffer with anorexia or any kind of eating disorder. You must be careful with what you say as you could really lower someones self confidence or offend and upset them.
No one should comment on anyone else's weight because it is nothing to do with them! Everyone is different, and no one is perfect. ♥
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